Living in Hope When
You're Not an Optimist
An
optimist, my favorite definition goes, is someone who falls off a skyscraper
and as he passes the thirtieth floor thinks: "So far, so good."
The
Bush presidency, the corporate take-over of the US, and the destruction
of government social programs make it hard to be both a realist and an
optimist. We can't just look at the half of the glass that's full and
disregard the empty half.
In reality the glass is far from half full. It's full only for the richest
10% or fewer of US citizens. Many of the other 90% -- many who are deluded
victims of this administration, -- have been bamboozled into believing
that the right-wing social agennda, including the prevention of marriage
equality, is the real solution to their problems.
This inability to be optimistic doesn't mean that pessimism is the only
alternative. No matter how we feel about the future, there's a better,
empowering, and realistic choice that can change things. It's hope.
Author-activist Paul Rogat Loeb documents that hope in The Impossible
Will Take a Little While: A Citizen's Guide to Hope in a Time of Fear
(Basic Books, 2004). It's a collection of voices that's a must read
today.
Loeb's book would be worth it if only for his introductory essays. "Hope,"
he reminds us, "is a way of looking at the world - more than that, it's
a way of life."
Loeb has inspired progressives for decades, including his earlier The
Soul of a Citizen: Living with Conviction in a Cynical Time (St. Martin's
1999). But in his new volume he also brings together the voices of the
many others who are models of hope in the midst of seemingly overwhelming
odds.
The experience of Vaclav Havel, former Czechoslovakian president, is
one example. Three years before the Communist dictatorship fell, Havel
wrote, "Hope is not prognostication. It is an orientation of the spirit,
an orientation of the heart." His experience is only one of many that
prove that a series of seemingly futile and insignificant actions can
bring down an empire.
Even in what appears to be a losing cause, one person may knowingly
inspire another and then another who could go on and change the world.
Loeb tells of a friend who in the early 1960s in a pouring rain joined
a small vigil in front of the White House protesting nuclear testing.
A few years later famous baby doctor Benjamin Spock, who influenced thousands,
spoke at a much larger march against the Viet Nam War, telling the crowd
that his inspiration was that small group of women he saw by chance huddled
with their kids in the rain. "I thought that if those women were out there,
their cause must be really important."
In The Impossible Will Take a Little While we hear Nelson Mandela speak
of how to survive prison intact, emerge undiminished, and conserve and
replenish one's hope. We hear Susan B. Anthony's words that "cautious,
careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and
social standing, never can bring about a reform."
We hear Native American writer Sherman Alexie's hope: "Everything is
stuffed to the brim with ideas and love and hope and magic and dreams."
We hear gay, Tony-award-winning playwright Tony Kushner write that despair
is a lie we tell ourselves, reminding us of the words of Martin Luther
King, Jr. that "the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward
justice." Then there's Cornell West saying: "To live is to wrestle with
despair yet never to allow despair to have the last word."
In other essays we read of the creativity of people who carried on against
great odds and were there to see the powers fall. They often never thought
they were activists. They merely tried to end what was hurting them or
their families.
We hear of others who fought for progressive values even though they
didn't expect to see results in their lifetime. But these were activists,
Loeb reminds us, who believed that, "living with conviction is of value
in itself regardless of the outcome."
Giving up on life and the living, Loeb argues, is really 'a form of
arrogance." Alice Walker's testimony "Only Justice Can Stop a Curse,"
examines the arrogance of the politics of bitterness.
So, for our own lives, for our own good, for our own conscience and
integrity, we seem to have no choice other than acting out of hope.
"Life is a gamble," historian Howard Zinn writes. "Not to play is to
foreclose any chance of winning. To play, to act, is to create at least
a possibility of changing the world."
Settling for personal change isn't enough to make our lives worth living
and to ensure the world we want. Giving up in cynicism and pessimism will
eat us up from the inside and allow those who'd hurt us to destroy the
outside. We've been made for more.
Loeb: "We can't afford the sentimental view that mere self-improvement,
no matter how noble in intention, is enough. Nor can we afford to succumb
to fear."
It's hard to do justice to a collection like The Impossible Will Take
a Little While. Snippets of these inspiring writings make them seem trite
and precious.
But when you sit down to read these short essays, the effect is cumulative,
hope-inspiring. These words never deviate from the realities of facing
the often cruel societies others have made because these represent the
stories of real people. And they inspire those of us who feel we have
only a small garden to hoe, not an empire to redirect.
But I can't resist the hope in words such as these from Benjamin Mays,
mentor to Dr. King: "The tragedy of life doesn't lie in not reaching a
goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach. It isn't a calamity
to die with dreams unfilled, but it is a calamity not to dream. It is
not a disgrace not to reach the stars, but it is a disgrace to have no
stars to reach for."
Hope is realistic, and it's a choice.
Robert
N. Minor, Ph.D. is Professor of Religious Studies at the University
of Kansas and author of Gay & Healthy in a Sick Society and Scared Straight:
Why It's So Hard to Accept Gay People and Why It's So Hard to Be Human.
Reach him at www.fairnessproject.org.
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