Beyond SBNR
"So
what are you?" Unconsciously imitating my dog, I tilted my head to the side
and stared at the minister. Was she really asking me this question?
It was the Together
in Faith conference, the annual national gathering of spiritual LGBT
activists, and I was surprised that, even here, many people seemed determined
to box up their spirituality in two words. "Lesbian Christian." "Gay Buddhist."
"Bisexual Jew." "Transgender Pagan."
Sure, it's partially just for convenience's sake - a kind of shorthand
to give others an idea of whom they're dealing with - but do we really
have to reduce the complexity of our personal spiritual beliefs and practices
to one or two words? After all, when pressed, most LGBT people identify
as "Spiritual But Not Religious." I think so many people identify as "SBNR"
because they don't fit neatly into a religious or spiritual category.
One may have been raised Southern Baptist and go to a Metropolitan Community
Church, but also practice Buddhist meditation and yoga, want to investigate
sacred sexuality and love to read Marianne Williamson. How can we reduce
that kind of richness to just "Gay Christian?" That's one reason we can
give thanks for www.myOutSpirit.com,
a new resource coming this winter for LGBT people of all religions and
spiritualities. Instead of reducing your spirituality to two words, myOutSpirit.com
allows you to revel in the complexity of your spiritual interests.
You can use the myOutSpirit Directory of LGBT Spiritual Resources to
connect with "LGBT Spiritual Resource Providers," what myOutSpirit.com
calls all the LGBT-affirming churches, websites, retreats, yoga studios,
books, 'zines and magazines, conferences, life coaches, spiritual directors,
etc. You can also build a dynamic list of your favorite LGBT Spiritual
Resource Providers that you can post on your personal profile, blog or
website to share your diverse spiritual interests with others.
myOutSpirit.com offers a new way to express your Out Spirit.
Because the website is open to including every kind of LGBT-affirming
spiritual resource, from any belief system, there's no artificial limit
placed on your spiritual exploration or identity. You can be everything
that you are at myOutSpirit.com.
The site also has a more altruistic goal that you can help achieve:
placing spirituality at the center of LGBT life, culture and community.
When you join myOutSpirit.com - whether you're a spiritual LGBT person
or an actual LGBT Spiritual Resource Provider - you help make spirituality
VISIBLE in the LGBT community.
You must have noticed that today spirituality has no
place in mainstream LGBT culture or media. Even the LGBT media only talks
about LGBT spiritual people and beliefs when there is some controversy,
some injustice. myOutSpirit.com aims to correct that imbalance through
a member-funded advertising and public relations campaign that will keep
everyone informed about opportunities for LGBT-affirming spiritual inquiry
and practice, and that will hopefully get more LGBT people involved in
spiritual exploration.
Almost all of the LGBT Spiritual Resource Providers who join myOutSpirit.com
are already openly LGBT-affirming-some even advertise in LGBT papers and
newsletters-but they still join myOutSpirit.com because they know doing
so makes LGBT spirituality itself more visible. Of course these resource
providers hope that their listings in the Directory of LGBT Spiritual
Resources will attract more LGBT people to use their resources, but they
also appreciate the big picture:
Increased visibility of LGBT spiritual beliefs, people and practices
is good for the LGBT community's well-being and politics as well as good
for LGBT Spiritual Resource Providers.
As Harry Knox, Director of myOutSpirit.com member the Human
Rights Campaign Foundation's Religion and Faith Program puts it, "myOutSpirit.com
is a resource the LGBT community has needed for years. People empowered
by their faith tradition and practice make powerful advocates for justice.
I am grateful for this new resource."
myOutSpirit.com integrates our LGBT movement for social liberation with
our movement for spiritual liberation as well as helping each of us integrate
her or his different spiritual interests.
Another cool thing about the site is that you can earn extra money by
helping to sign up LGBT Spiritual Resource Providers in your area for
myOutSpirit.com membership. Like Whosoever.org, you can join the OutSpirit
Partner Affiliate Program, post a banner on your blog, website or
to your email list, and earn a commission whenever an LGBT Spiritual Resource
Provider clicks on your link and joins myOutSpirit.com. It's free and
easy to become an OutSpirit Partner.
myOutSpirit.com will offer so many important gifts to the LGBT community:
- The myOutSpirit Directory of LGBT Spiritual Resources will help connect
spiritual LGBT people with relevant, LGBT-affirming Spiritual Resource
Providers;
- The project's advertising and public relations campaign will give LGBT
spirituality a presence in LGBT culture and community;
- Spiritual LGBT activists will be able to organize and take action for
LGBT equality; and,
- myOutSpirit.com will make the multi-billion dollar LGBT market for spiritual
products and services VISIBLE.
Are you ready to help place spirituality at the center of LGBT life?
Visit www.myOutSpirit.com
today and do everything you can to help this important project succeed.
Maybe then we can replace "So what are you?" with "Tell me about YOUR
Out Spirit!"
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