Same Sex Marriage: A Return To Tradition
By: Candace L. Chellew
Tradition. In every argument I hear against same-sex marriage, that
word is used. Opponents worry that gay and lesbian marriages will go against
"tradition." At first I believed they were right, and that, yes,
gay and lesbian marriages would not be traditional, and that would be a
good thing.Now, I believe gay s and lesbians should show the straight community
the true tradition of marriage.
Everywhere you look you'll find evidence of how straight America has desecrated
the once sacred tradition of tying the knot. These days more than half of
straight marriages end in divorce. I, myself, am the product of a broken
home, even though my father, as a Southern Baptist minister, should have
been well versed on the whole sanctity of marriage thing.
I believe the straight community is afraid that the gay and lesbian community
will be more succesful at making marriage work. To be shown up by a bunch
of heathen "queers" is the last thing
Pat Robertson, Ralph Reed and their cohorts wants to see happen.
But, that's exactly what I propose. The gay and lesbian community should
take marriage very seriously. Not only does marriage afford you some great
perks like property rights, the right to visit your spouse in the hospital,
and health insurance, it also is a chance to show the world your lifelong
commitment to another human being. Not even Bob Dole, Newt Gingrich or Bob
Barr can say they've had completely successful marriages, yet giving gays
and lesbians a chance to try it
somehow soils the sacred tradition.
It's time to return to the old tradition of marriage: a commitment you make
after much soul searching and prayer, and a commitment you make for life.