All posts by Rev. Paul M. Turner

I Don’t Want to Choose

I am having problems with my lover because when I am talking to my sister, he often wants me to say hello to her for him. I usually keep talking to her and I don’t let her know that he said hello. My family has

I Feel So Lost

I hope you can answer my feelings I have. Two weeks ago my boyfriend moved away and I didn’t want to go with him because he said I needed to get a job, and I can’t work because I’m too afraid of being around people.

But Leviticus Says …

I do not by any means claim to be a scholar when it comes to the Bible. I fell upon this Web site while I was trying to learn more about the Bible. I come to you to pose a question, not to arouse an

Questions on Same-Gender Marriage

Hello there Rev. My name is Mary and I am a college student in New Jersey. I recently visited Whosoever and read your responses to some questions and since I am writing a paper on the topic of homosexual marriage and parenting I would love

Rekindling My Faith

Though I am not gay or bisexual, I have faced many problems in my path to finding and rekindling my faith in Christianity. I have searched through many different religions, and I have made many mistakes I find myself unable to forgive myself for (in

The Man I Love is Gay

I am currently a junior in college. When I came to school my freshmen year I met this awesome friend named Justin. Him and I became very close and we were/are prayer partners. Today, Justin told me he was taking me to dinner. As a

I am Sick to Death of Being Gay

I am so embarrassed with my life as it is now, living the past 10 years as a gay guy and on my own. I am sick to death of being gay. Now 43, I feel I am a loser and to add insult to

What Was Sodom’s Sin?

Does the story of Sodom and Gomorrah condemn inhospitality and idolatry, and not homosexuality? I do not mean to attack you, I only mean to find answers as to why you believe the way you do. I found a verse — Jude 7: “As Sodom

I’m Afraid I Might Be a Pedophile

I’m a 22 year old guy who’s very confused about my feeling of “love.” When I was little I too dreamed of marrying and having children I also remember back in kindergarten I liked boys instead of girls, but I thought that I’d grow out

Should I Leave My Girlfriend for Jesus?

I recently rededicated my life to Jesus after 10 years in a Spiritualist church which believed Jesus was a good guy but not that we need salvation in particular. I have been in a Pentecostal church for the past 4 weeks and am being fed