Category Archives: Faith & Witness

Hand reaching toward sunlight

How To Know If We Are in God’s Will

And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom… (2 Timothy 4:18) Jesus said that His kingdom was not of this world! (John 18:36) His disciples were to have eternity in mind, and not be bound

Hand reaching toward sunlight

I Believe…

“I believe in God, the Father Almighty.” How many times have we said these words? For me I think it has hit the 1000+ mark, and that is just the times I’ve said it as part of a church service. But what do I see

Grandparent and grandchild walking

Coming Home

We were picking blackberries in Franklin, Georgia. He was on one side of the bush and I was on the other. I looked up and said “Dad, I am gay.” He looked directly at me through the thorny branches, heavy with berries. “Well, you can’t

Dove flying in Lisbon, Portugal

It’s Not Okay

The night my spouse and I first met, another couple in the room made bets on how long it would be before we were married. For me, it was one of those love-at-first-sight moments. He walked up to me at a Metropolitan Community Church event,

Friends watching sports in the living room

Out at 45

I love baseball, I think it appeals to me the same way Las Vegas does. There is just something about the randomness of both that gives me hope. A pull of the slot handle or bases loaded in the bottom of the ninth with two

Dove flying in Lisbon, Portugal

The Rice Crackers of Good Fortune

I was at my local post office here in The Castro, filling out a form to mail a certified letter; when a frail and elderly Asian woman gently asked me if this is the line. I said “I’m still filling out papers; by all means

Black man playing with a magnifying glass

Schadenfreude

“Should I feel bad that I feel good when bad things happen to other people?” That is a paraphrase of friends’ inquiries in recent weeks. “Other people” here does not refer to just “any people.” If it did, feeling thus would be a big sin