Is this just a blunder, or has the Pope revealed his true colors?
Pope Francis sent global shock waves when the news broke that he used the highly offensive F-word frociaggine (“faggotness” in Italian) in a closed-door conversation at the Italian Bishops’ Conference. During a discussion about whether to admit gay seminarians in preparation for the priesthood, the pontiff replied: “There is too much frociaggine in seminaries.”
The news of Francis using this particular homophobic and eyebrow-raising epithet deeply hurt many out and proud Catholic LGBTQ+ people hoping for full inclusion and acceptance by Pope Francis. “I imagine people like me are eating their optimistic words,” Nina Girgenti of Boston told me. But Nina’s optimism was not unfounded.
2023 looked optimistic
For example, during the Catholic Church’s World Day of the Poor, in Torvaianica, a run-down seaside town just 20 miles south of Rome, a community of transwomen, many of who are sex workers, received VIP seats as Pope Francis’s guests at the monthly lunch gatherings.
Francis’ call for the decriminalization of homosexuality was lauded by LGBTQ+ advocates as a milestone that would help end harassment and violence against us, albeit the pontiff publicly stated that homosexual acts are a sin and not a crime. During World Youth Day, Francis announced that the Church was for everyone. “There is space for everyone, and when there isn’t, please, let’s work so that there is. ” Also, the Vatican agreed to baptize transgender Catholics and allow them to be godparents.
The pope’s PR machine has come out with many incredulous excuses and tepid apologies for his gaffe. However, this faux pas suggests that “even if intended as a joke, the Pope’s comment reveals the depth of anti-gay bias and institutional discrimination that still exist in our church,” said Marianne Duddy-Burke, Executive Director of DignityUSA, in a statement titled “Queer Catholic Group Stands in Solidarity with Gay Priests, Those Seeking Ordination after Pope’s Hurtful Use of Slur.”
The Catholic Church needs its gay priests
“The truth is that the Church simply could not function without those countless gay priests, bishops, and maybe even popes who currently serve and have served over the centuries,” Duddy-Burke said. And I agree with her. The reality here is that the Catholic Church is a gay institution. And that is not a bad thing!
The homosocial and homosexual milieux of gay priests have been part and parcel of the life and operations of the Vatican as well as the Catholic Church for centuries. Their strength to come out now as a formidable force within the hallowed walls of the Vatican is laudable on the one hand and a liability on the other hand — especially in terms of casting a gay suspicion on all priests as well as the potential to expose those priests who want to remain in the closet.
“If they were to eliminate all those who were homosexually oriented, the number would be so staggering that it would be like an atomic bomb; it would do damage to the church’s operation,” said the late Richard Sipe, a former priest and psychotherapist who studied the sexuality of priests for decades. Sipe also pointed out that to do away with gay priests “would mean the resignation of at least a third of the bishops of the world.”
The problem in the Catholic Church is not its gay priests, and its solution to the problem is not the removal of them. Years of homophobic church doctrine have made the Church unsafe for us all and have created a down-low culture.
Eugene Kennedy, a specialist on sexuality and the priesthood, also a former priest, wrote in his book The Unhealed Wound: The Church and Human Sexuality, that the Catholic Church: “… had always had gay priests, and they have often been models of what priests should be. To say that these men should be kept from the priesthood is in itself a challenge to the grace of God and an insult to them and the people they serve.”
Can the LGBTQ+ community trust Pope Francis?
Once again, Pope Francis is rocking the world and continuing to command attention with his liberal-leaning pronouncements. However, the pontiff is a complicated, if not confusing, figure to us LGBTQ+ people. On the surface, Francis displays a pastoral countenance to his papacy that seemingly extends to our community, too.
In 2013, responding to a question about a possible “gay lobby” in the Vatican, Francis said, “If they accept the Lord and have good will, who am I to judge them?” Supporters and activists of the “gay lobby” in the Curia emphatically state that this brave and visible group is essential to the running of the Vatican as well as protecting themselves from the Church’s hypocrisy in scapegoating them for many of the social ills of the Church.
But Pope Francis is the consummate flip-flopper of our time. He double-speaks on issues. In this instance, it is rubbing salt into an already painful wound. He embraces the LGBTQ+ community, and then he doesn’t. His pastoral demeanor cloaks the iron-fisted church bureaucrat that he is. It’s not enough for Pope Francis to say he embraces our community — privately or publicly. He must also do it.
Public theologian, syndicated columnist and radio host Rev. Irene Monroe is a founder and member emeritus of several national LBGTQ+ black and religious organizations and served as the National Religious Coordinator of the African American Roundtable at the Center for LGBTQ and Religion Studies in Religion at Pacific School of Religion. A graduate of Wellesley College and Union Theological Seminary, she served as a pastor in New Jersey before studying for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow at Harvard Divinity School and serving as the head teaching fellow of the Rev. Peter Gomes at Memorial Church. She has taught at Harvard, Andover Newton Theological Seminary, Episcopal Divinity School and the University of New Hampshire. Her papers are at the Schlesinger Library at Radcliffe College’s Research Library on the History of Women in America.